The Impact.

One thing I always have to remember is the impact these pageants have on some people. Sometimes more on one person than others. Like pageant mom's, are most of the time the most supportive mom's alive. No I'm kidding, but they do put a great deal into working with their child. They do the makeup the hair buy the supplies, work on routines, all that stuff. And when they win, they feel so proud. It's more of a bonding thing than anything. I've heard mom's say that nothing matters when their daughter is on stage, because she looks so beautiful, and nothing can touch her. If that's not love, I don't know what is.

To know that you have someone supporting you makes it a lot easier almost. Because when you are on stage you have people out in the crowd you know that love you.



The only bad thing about pageants I think...is all the insecurities it brings along with it. More than likely, all the girls your competing against, are in shape. And it seems like there may be no flaws on them, but flaws on you. And every time you get dressed, or put makeup on for that certain competition, it leaves you feeling, like you could have done more. You constantly compare yourself to others, and it seems like there is one common goal; to lose weight before the pageant starts.

Or to make sure your hair is long enough, or to be perfect. When in reality- you know you will never be perfect. As sad as that is, sometimes it's hard to remember who you are, when the world around you is... fake. And my only problem is knowing that those little girls may be different than who they are then, by growing up too fast I guess.



But there are so many things you can gain from them as well;

Confidence- I've never been afraid of a crowd, ever.

Beauty- You can always bring out the beauty in others, and not to mention yourself.

Persuasion- telling other people about things, promting, basicially never backing down from a challenge.



And last an ablity to challenge yourself in whatever you do, because after all, it is a competition. And it may not affect you at all in the long run. Some people say it's a waste of time, and yeah it has it's complications, but it's not all that bad.



I remember who I am, and they remember who they are too.